I want to take a moment this morning to reflect with you on the importance of correct communication. The reason I have to spend some time with this topic is because I often get reports from people that their relationship is suffering. That things are not the way that they used to be, and they are thinking about walking.
Consistency is key and Application is KING! What energy, what newfound energy are you putting into the power of your relationships? What is your premium relationship? Are we even aware of how many relationships we are maintaining throughout the course of a day? We have the job, the significant other, we have others, some have children, some have a very serious relationship with their appearance. They go the gym, eat certain way and at certain times.
Why do we do this, specifically? We eat a certain kind of way, and we exercise because we care about our health. What about the healthy condition of our relationships? Are we feeding our relationships the kind of healthy produce that is going to result in optimal performance, or are we feeding, arguably THE most important relationship in our lives, negligibly? Are we applying that which we know is conducive to our health, and overall longevity?
Are we doing all that we can do this morning to nurture our relationships? How many of us worked out this morning, or plan to throughout the course of the day? What regimens do you have in place to strengthen your relationships? We know that if we do not stay healthy, we are not going to be able to be physically present for our loved ones. Well, if our relationships are not healthy, do we realize that we are not going to be able to be emotionally present to attend to our other relationships?
Look, many of us lay down and wake up with our spouses. They are the first person we see to begin our day. The way that we attend to their needs, wants, desires, cravings, etc. will determine, in large part, the way we attend to every other relationship, or interaction throughout the course of any given day.
If we are not genuine,if we do not give love, and do not feel loved, to begin our day, what is the quality of the rest of the day going to look like? If we cannot attend to our significant others, with any real significance, the quality, and authenticity of our dealings with other people are going to severely lack in quality. How is your customer service going to stand up, when you start your day from a place of deflation? Manager, how are you going to coach your subordinates, when you yourself are undernourished, and less than encouraged? It’s not going to happen.
Many of us need to go back and restart our day. We need to get our of ourselves, get out of our emotions. We need to diet on real words, valuable communication start with the ones we spend the most time with, and if we spend most of our time at work, we should really look at that. We need to take some time of and do some sets with our loved ones. Build up the muscles of authentic communication. This may not start easy, but nothing of true worth, and significance, ever does.
I’ll tell you what, when you’re finished reading this email, flip your phone to dial, and call the most important person in your life, and tell them that you love them. Tell them that you’re going to work harder, you’re going to do more, or maybe you need to do less, I don’t know. You know what you need to say, and if you don’t reach out. Remember, Application is King, and rightfully so Communication is Queen!
If this resonates with you, and any of it makes sense, and you agree, but just don’t know where to start, or how to go about it, schedule a FREE CONSULTATION below. Let’s get the juices flowing in the right direction, with correct energy and communication. I can’t wait to hear from you!